Friends - I hope you will allow me a pause in our trip to Cambodia and Vietnam. Partially, we are at a logical stopping point: the next place we will visit is Siam Reap with perhaps that most famous of Cambodian monuments, Angkor Wat. Partially, because after the horrors of Tuol Sleng, a palate cleanser is order.
The Forty-Five
Tuesday, December 02, 2025
2025 Grand Canyon: Thunder River Introduction
Monday, December 01, 2025
My Annual Commercialism Adventure And Demographics
As in recent years past, I ventured on out Black Friday.
This is usually not driven directly by any need that I have but rather by a desire to spend time with my family. As they like to go "hit the bargains" (as the kids say), so I too have learned to (slightly) embrace the day.
To be fair, if one is looking for something that one has already determined that one needs, it is not a bad time to go: for example, likely I could have gotten two years worth of shoes at a 30% discount (had I needed them). And I suspect that deals on commonly needed things like socks and underwear could be found at similarly amazing prices.
For the most part, there were no "crowds". Occasional lines, but nothing like the mass insanity that one used to see at Big Box stores for things like electronics (or maybe such mass hysteria still exists; I have no idea). People behaved well.
The most crowded place we went was one of the two malls in the greater New Home 2.0 area, one of what is likely my semi-annual visit to them. Much more crowded of course, although it seemed to me somewhat less full than last year.
The thing that surprises me as I go to such places, is how similar the sorts of stores are. We went shoe and clothes shopping - but there are just as many or more shoe and clothes shops in the mall that seem to market slightly different versions of the same thing. Non-specific clothing and fashion adjacent shops seem, to my eye, fewer and fewer.
This probably says something about us as a culture.
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On Saturday, with Na Clann safely returned to New Home, we ventured out into one of the "local neighborhoods" that our nearby urban metropolis has. This part of the neighborhood had a number of stores in it as well - very high end stores, judging from the cost of the chocolates and leather. It was a decent mix of clothing, fashion adjacent, non-fashion adjacent, and unusual stores (including a crystal store with a rather amazing collection of taxidermy).
I say "high end" because most of the places we stopped and looked had no prices on the actual items themselves. At least one of the chocolate bars The Ravishing Mrs. TB picked up was $45. A Cave Bear Jaw Bone, if you were curious, will run you about $5,000.
It was a very interesting slice of walking and looking, clearly not designed for someone like myself.
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Yesterday morning in church, the preaching pastor mentioned a survey a local church group had undertaken of the greater New Home 2.0 Urban Area. It was inclusive of a 25 mile radius around the main urban metropolis, and interviewed businesses, individuals, churches, etc. (or so I was told; I do not have the study on hand).
The shocking thing, both to the initiators and to myself: a full 50% of the people interviewed anticipated moving away in the next five years. At a local population of that area of almost 3,000,000, that is not an inconsiderable number.
Of course, not everyone that intends to move actually moves. But the reasons that people might move are apparent. Local big employers are closing up shop here, and the backfill is not going to be enough to replace those jobs. The urban metropolis of New Home 2.0 has all of the problems of almost any major urban center at this point, and even from our brief sojourn here, it is clear that nothing effective is being done. Add to that the cost of doing business here in terms of taxes both business and personal, and relocation begins to make some level of sense.
Sure, people will likely move in as well. But people moving in need to have jobs to come to, and those jobs - the so-called "good high paying ones" are moving to other locales.
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The trajectory of this is, of course, predictable. The people that are most likely to relocate are those who can relocate, whose job skills are such that they can find a job elsewhere or (like us) are still relatively unattached in terms of roots here. These are likely - but not always - the jobs that are the highest paying and thus, the ones that many of the businesses that we visited over the course of the weekend most dependent on.
With those paying consumers gone, the remaining consumers will likely not be shopping at the higher end stores (they never do). Tax receipts will fall, which then will need to be replenished (because no government body seems capable of cutting spending these days) by increasing taxes and fees. The urban issues, not solved now in days of relative affluency, will surely not be solved under those circumstances.
It does make me wonder what The Weekend After Thanksgiving Commercialism excursions will look like in the future.
Sunday, November 30, 2025
A Year Of Humility (XVIIL): Scriptures And Ourselves
Saturday, November 29, 2025
November 2025 Grab Bag
I hope your Thanksgiving was wonderful. Na Clann were all here for the week, so we got a healthy combination of local adventures, food, Thanksgiving Day episodes, and shopping. As Nighean Gheal was in South Korea last year, this is first time in two years that we have been together.
For reference, last time we were all together, I had not been laid off as part of Hammerfall 3.0, we still lived in New Home, and we had not had a presidential election.
The world was a different place.
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In Administrative notes, I realized that I had not linked all of the 2024 Turkey entries into the single page dedicated to this purpose. That issue has been rectified. Additionally, The Collapse page should be up to date to current entries. And a new page for 2025 Cambodia And Vietnam has been started (although given how long it has take me to get through was was the first 3 days of our trip, we will be reading about this all through next year).
I still need to bring A Year of Humility to a page near you. At this point, that sounds like an end of year task.
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This week I had a medical appointment.
This was a rather long delayed one dating from February of this year when I should have gone, when due to my training in Japan I seem to have done something to my right knee. I was hopeful that I could just "exercise my way out of it", but it got worse, not better - worse to the point that I am pretty much unable to do any kneeling waza at this point. The good news? Apparently it is tendonitis as no tear or rip could be found and it has full range of motion. Exercises for now, with the possibility of physical therapy if that does not work.
Other things discovered during the visit:
- My blood pressure is normal. I was afraid I was pushing up into pre-hypertension mode, but apparently not. That is a relief.
- Based on descriptions, I may have Obstructive Sleep Apnea. A sleep study has been ordered.
- A round of general labs has been ordered
God willing and nothing new, I will be back for an exam in a year.
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As a note to the ongoing sale of The Ranch, we have received no offers after our initial lowball. At the recommendation of our realtor, we are taking it off the market and will re-list it in Spring.
During my last trip earlier this month, I spent no more than 30 minutes at the maximum checking things out and making sure no new issues had arisen. This has very much become a rear-guard action.
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For the first time in something like 20 years, I will be doing a public harp performance.
The whole thing came about as a result of the small group I led earlier this Autumn. One of the icebreakers was "What is an unusual thing that you do?" Mine, as it turns out, was playing the harp. Word gets around as these things do and now I am performing in the lobby before, between, and after services on 21 December.
Certainly an incentive to practice intensely.
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With the passing of Thanksgiving and Black Friday, we enter the Christmas season - which, based on the way Christmas falls this year, is only 3 Fridays away. I need to make a sincere effort to be mindful of the season this year as it feels like it will be more compressed than usual.
At least Christmas carols are now fair game.
Friday, November 28, 2025
Thursday, November 27, 2025
Thanksgiving 2025
As is customary for this time of year, I present below the original Thanksgiving Proclamation of 1789.
Every year as I do this, I realize how much I have had to be thankful for. I am extraordinarily thankful for of you, my readers. And I am thankful again that my family - The Ravishing Mrs. TB, Nighean Gheal, Nighean Bhan, and Nighean Dhonn - will be here to celebrate in New Home 2.0
A Blessed Thanksgiving to you all.
George Washington's 1789
Thanksgiving Proclamation
- http://www.wilstar.com/holidays/wash_thanks.htm
Wednesday, November 26, 2025
2025 Cambodia And Vietnam: Tuol Sleng IV
A picture of seven of the eight known survivors. Most of them survived by having skills that that Khmer Rouge needed:
